My Black is NOT Cracking.

I'm not Aging. I'm appreciating in value!

I’ve been working on this book about loss for the past year.  I’ve written about my own experiences, but also have been thoroughly researching the topic. The purpose of this post is not to depress the living s#*t out of you.  I am hoping you’ll find it helpful.  I will get back to the topic …

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Summer has always been more than just a season. It’s a feeling. It’s a time when the days stretch out before you, offering time and space to reflect, heal, and to grow like those collards in the garden. It’s a season where everything feels just a little more possible. It’s a season of longer days …

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Okay, so everyone that personally knows me is quite aware that I’m a huge Earth, Wind & Fire fan. But no, I’m not talking about their hit song “Reasons.”  Although some of the lyrics do apply.  Well not the “I’m craving your body” part!   But for sure, the “I don’t want to feel, and I’m …

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“And we wept that one so lovely should have a life so brief.”  William Cullen Bryant I received my first and possibly only Christmas gift in the mail. (Don’t worry. I could care less. Unless someone wants to buy my new roof!) My good friend sent me a book on grieving entitled “Grieving is Loving. …

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I cannot believe that I’m almost old enough to collect social security.  How is that even possible when I was just 43 yesterday? I meant 37. I was recently reminded by that statement you receive regularly throughout your entire adult life that you mostly ignored.  (Well, I did.) The statement that told you how much …

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