I used to believe that holding on was a sign of loyalty. That endurance meant strength. That if something or someone had been part of my life for a long time, I owed it permanence. There comes a moment in life, sometimes quietly, sometimes like a lightening bolt, when you realize that certain things, habits, …
I’ve been working on this book about loss for the past year. I’ve written about my own experiences, but also have been thoroughly researching the topic. The purpose of this post is not to depress the living s#*t out of you. I am hoping you’ll find it helpful. I will get back to the topic …
Summer has always been more than just a season. It’s a feeling. It’s a time when the days stretch out before you, offering time and space to reflect, heal, and to grow like those collards in the garden. It’s a season where everything feels just a little more possible. It’s a season of longer days …
Okay, so everyone that personally knows me is quite aware that I’m a huge Earth, Wind & Fire fan. But no, I’m not talking about their hit song “Reasons.” Although some of the lyrics do apply. Well not the “I’m craving your body” part! But for sure, the “I don’t want to feel, and I’m …
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7/2/22 – Part III Grief. Seriously, I’m not really suggesting there is good grief. But Grief is necessary in order to heal. To grieve is to allow yourself to experience the intense feelings of disbelief, despair, and sadness. Those feelings are part of the healing process, so allowing yourself time to grieve is healthy. it’s …
There are no words to describe the heartbreak. On Tuesday, May 31st, I texted my granddaughter the following text message about safe driving. Four days later she would die in a speeding car in the very way I spoke of in my text. (As the passenger!) One side of my heart is broken due to my …