My Black is NOT Cracking.

I'm not Aging. I'm appreciating in value!

Well, it looks like I’m going to see another birthday this week.  Another year gone by.  And what a year it was! This time last year I was hanging out with my cousin in NYC having a ball.  I left NY and headed to New Orleans.  Yup.  I was in the first two hot beds …

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To my non POC readers, you may or may not have seen the movie or read the book by Terry McMillan entitled “Waiting to Exhale.” If you missed it, it was a story about a group of four friends who got together on the regular to vent about love and life.  I thought the whole …

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I know! Not what you expected! As I look out the window and see snow on the ground here on the east coast, I can’t help but miss SoCal.  Why?  The weather!  For a good part of the year, it feels like spring! EVERY DAY. And fortunately, living near the water, I rarely experienced the …

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A few weeks ago, while scrolling Netflix options I came across Chris Rock’s documentary “Good Hair.” I decided to check it out.  It was not only entertaining, it was also very enlightening.  Having a hairstylist daughter, I have always asked a lot of questions as I watched women in the salon get 20 inch hair …

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I’m pretty confident almost everyone has seen the movie Jerry McGuire and remembers the cute kid explain to Jerry how much the human head weighed.  I believe he said it weighed 8lbs.  (In my Jonathan Lipnicki voice) Did you know of that 8lb head (although I’m sure I’ve seen larger!) the human brain on average …

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We often think about creativity as creating some sort of art, but the root meaning of the word actually means ‘to grow’.  To be creative is to grow and to feel alive.  Actor/Director Tim Robbins states, “Creativity is essential to your well-being.”  Robbins runs an actor’s workshop in a CA prison.  It was featured in …

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If you are like me, you are experiencing some serious feelings of anger and disgust toward a whole lot of folks this week. You’re also experiencing feelings of fear and anxiety about the future of this country and more immediately, the next two weeks.  You’re PTFO about the illegal, impeachable, conduct of this unhinged, deranged, …

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At the beginning of every year I have a ritual.  I get a new notebook.  Nothing fancy.  A spiral bound notebook.  It’s usually orange, black or green. My accounting background will not allow me to write in a red notebook!  Those who know me would be able to confirm that there is always a notebook …

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Many of us spent a great deal of 2020, isolated and alone.  For some, stress and anxiety were the only constant companions in 2020.  The sad reality is pretty obvious.  It is not going to get better overnight.  In fact, it is highly likely that it will get worse before it gets better.  But, it …

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So, I started this new position with the TV production company I have been employed by for almost nine years now.  I was given an opportunity to move into the production side from the business affairs office.  There really wasn’t an option as my position was being eliminated, but it was also a new opportunity …

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